For two · anonymous · adult

A quieter way to talk about closeness.

TooApp lets two people share intimate preferences, signal when they're in the mood, and reflect afterward — privately, without ever saying your name.

No name, no email, no photo stored. Ever.

How it works

Four steps. Then it just lives quietly on your phone.

No social graph. No “who’s around.” Just the two of you, with better signal between you.

Pair anonymously

One person generates a QR or link. The other scans it. You're connected — no names exchanged.

Map preferences

Mark each item as love, curious, neutral, dislike, or hard limit. Only matches surface.

Open a window

When you're in the mood, set a time. If your partner's window overlaps yours, both of you get a quiet ping.

Reflect, if you want to

A light review afterward: four ratings, a note, what you tried. Shared only if you both opt in.

A look inside

Designed to be put down — not scrolled.

Every screen does one thing. No feed, no streaks, no nudges that don't matter.

Home

One tile, one decision

Open a window when you want to. That's the whole gesture.

Open a window

Duration, interests, a note

Pick a preset or set a custom span. Add tags or a sentence — or send nothing at all.

Match

Both ready, at once

If your windows overlap, both of you know. Shared interests show up too.

Preferences

A private map of you two

Five-point scale per item. Hard limits stay protected on the server.

Reflect

Four ratings, one note

Optional. Shared only when both of you submit. Otherwise it stays yours.

History

A timeline you can search

Everything that happened, only between you.

Stats

Patterns, not pressure

See how things have been trending — your averages, top practices, frequency.

What's inside

Calm tools for an honest conversation.

QR or link pairing

Invites expire in 15 minutes. One partner at a time, always symmetric.

Five-point preference map

Love, curious, neutral, dislike, hard limit — across fetishes, types of sex, and toys.

Readiness windows

Open a span of time. Get a quiet match the moment your partner overlaps.

Hard-limit protection

Server-side enforced. Even if a note mentions one, you'll never see the trigger.

Custom items

Add anything not in our catalogue. Visible only inside your pair.

Mutual reviews

Four ratings, a note, what you tried. Shared only if you both opt in.

Shared history & stats

Filter, search, see patterns. Or wipe everything — instantly, from either side.

Seven languages

English, Russian, Spanish, French, German, Chinese, Portuguese — all at launch.

Biometric lock

Face ID, Touch ID, or a PIN. Stored on-device, never on our servers.

Privacy first

Built on what we don't collect.

Sign-in is just a key — only you hold it. Your provider's name and email are dropped the second they touch our server.

Things we don't store

Your name
Your email address
Your phone number
Your photo or avatar
Your contacts, social graph, or device ID
Your precise location
Advertising or tracking identifiers

What we do keep

An anonymous user ID

A random UUID. Lets you sign back in on a new device.

Your country and language

For age-of-consent rules and which translation to load.

Your preferences & history with your partner

Encrypted in transit. Visible only to the two of you. Deletable instantly.

Push tokens

So Apple/Google can deliver notifications. Rotates with the device.

Questions

The things people ask first.

Is TooApp really anonymous?

Yes. We use Sign in with Apple or Google purely as a key mechanism — the email and name your provider sends are dropped on our server before they're ever stored. The only identifier we keep is a random UUID. If you ever request account deletion, that UUID and everything tied to it goes too.

Can my partner see everything I mark in my preferences?

Only what you choose. Three options: Full visibility, Matches + your hard limits (default), or Only matches. Hard limits are always honoured server-side, even if you hide them from your partner.

What is a 'readiness window'?

A span of time when you're up for closeness — say, 21:00 to 23:00 tonight. If your partner's window overlaps yours, both of you get a discreet notification. No window, no signal.

What's a 'hard limit', and how is it enforced?

A hard limit is a thing you've marked as absolutely off the table. The app never suggests it, never matches on it, and enforcement lives on the server — not just in the UI.

Do I have to leave a review?

No. Skip it, leave it private, or share it with your partner — your choice every time. Reviews unlock to your partner only when both of you submit and both have the share toggle on.

What happens if we break up — or just want to start over?

Either of you can dissolve the pair from settings. There's also a panic disconnect that doesn't notify your partner and clears local data.

What does it cost?

Free during launch. If we introduce paid features later, the core — pairing, readiness, matches, reviews, history — will stay free. We will never sell data or run ads. There is nothing to sell.

Two people. One quiet app.

TooApp is free. Sign in takes about ten seconds.